Craig-
I couldn't agree more. I build to build. It relieves stress, furthers my love of history, and gives me something to do with my hands.
As far as experts, some times I have to laugh when I see someone post a comment after looking at pictures of pre-production sprue shots and announcing that they "had great hopes for a decent XXXXX, but they will save their money now." I wonder how many times these people probably did not have any intentions of buying that kit. I'll be the first to admit that I am disappointed with the shape of the taillights on the 2015 Corvette, so I won't be buying one now… (tongue firmly in cheek, aside from the divorce filing that would result, I can't see myself in a 'Vette. My '06 Mustang is enough for me).
I once posted a picture of my recently finished Tamiya Tilly (that I took to a contest in Omaha earlier this year, it placed 3rd). The second comment said in essence, "Nice build, but you are a victim of the Tamiya color scheme scam." I was happy with the build, the colors were the ones spec'd out in the instructions, and it's a nice little kit. It was a quick build, no major fit problems, etc. But someone took the time to point out that my kit was the wrong color. (I am not thin skinned, I teach college as a "day" job.) This probably falls into the "lack of social skills" category.
I have used AM stuff - not a lot, but some Eduard color cockpits, painted seat belts, decals and paint masks. Recently, I purchased some resin wheel/tire sets for a Showcase Models Bushmaster (which came with rubber tires.). Also, some of those AM sets are a marginal improvement at best. I also recently purchased a set of aftermarket wheels for a Italari Hummer, and the ones from Tank Workshop (which cost about 60% the cost of the original kit) are horrible. They are mis-molded, our of round, and have other problems. I will probably see if I am happy with them after paint and "mud", but quite a few of the few AM goodies I have bought have been disappointments.
I use an airbrush, mainly because I like to. I have also tried several, and currently have 4 in my arsenal (2 Sotar's (1 with fine tip/needle, 1 with med tip/needle), an Iwata and a Tamiya). Each has its purpose, from base coats to detail, and I will be the first to admit I am not a "master" of the airbrush, but I am generally happy with the results, and, I am better today then I was when I started. I also use rattle cans for various projects (a 1/12th Mustang for one), and I love the Citadel Chaos Black primer (in a LARGE spray can).
In anything in life, there are be "experts" that wish to make sure someone knows their opinion on a given topic. Modeling is no different.
Great new site and happy building!
Chris